Are you Single or Sacredly Single?
I'm not sure why there's parts of society that seem to have this unwritten rule that if you aren't in a relationship you must be "broken"?!
Yes as humans we are social beings and it's part of our nature to interact with others and being in a relationship is a natural step in our life's journey. But is relationship status really part of the acceptable in society matrix? That just fills us with pressure to find and be with someone, even if they don't meet our standards for a relationship, on the presumption that being with Mr Someone is the next best thing to being with Mr Right.
It also can override our need to process and heal from a relationship by going straight into the next one, or just hooking up with people so that we get the dopamine hit we crave from being with someone.
Sometimes, it takes a while to process and heal out of a relationship. That should be perfectly acceptable on all levels. Intimate relationships are just that, intimate and vulnerable which is the way a sacred union should play out. Those of us women, who haven't had the benefit of uncoupling in a loving and respectful way can hold on to the hurt, even subconsciously creating an overprotective wall so there's no chance of experiencing a repeat of that kind of relationship again. Which then leads to shutting out potential decent partners or actually reliving the same scenario anyway. This then requires deeper healing.
So we have two types of single.
Single that is tortured by the thought and feeling of shame or rejection by being single. The fear of their circle judging them. Even if the relationship wasn't right for them. Often, hoping their next relationship will come round quickly.
Sacredly Single is loving who you are fully when being single. Giving yourself the time to honour yourself as a woman, to release the energetic attachments of a previous partner or partners. To heal. To really connect with your own soul and passion. To know who you are.
To know who can and want to be when you are in a sacred union.
This is a choice.
You choose to have a break from relationships - not forever. This isn't a vow you take to stay single. No Gorgeous, it's about honouring your own beautiful sacredness, being in ceremony or ritual to yourself, your soul purpose. For as long as you feel you need to. Knowing that when you are ready for a loving relationship, you don't lose yourself or your goals trying to make it work.
This is essentially a self love and care practice. Healing, letting go and loving yourself.
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