Oh my dear life. Social media has it's "ups & downs" and at some point your bound to come across a troll or two. However, the other day I was trolled by some and it triggered me. At first, when I saw how long the message was, and the opening line, I honestly thought this lady needed help. But as I read on, my heart sank and the more I read the more angrier I got. Really? this was her solution to a break up??
I was going to leave the message up and respond with something on the lines of "how could you be so selfish and trap a man like this just because you don't want to deal with your hurt? - you should never ever mess with someone else's free will!" however, by leaving the message up, I felt that people might actually think that I condone such act.
The short version of the message below is: This lady has pretty much begged and tried to bargain with her ex to take her back and he was not interested, Then not wanting to actually move on with her life - she consulted someone who, if this is true, has no ethics as a Wiccan or just happily practices dark magic.
I know I joked on one of my promos for the "Manifest Your Dream Partner" workshop that "you just need to find the right spell" but this wasn't quite what I meant!
If she did indeed love him she would be able to let him go. Love doesn't hurt people, it's all those other things we through our ego class as 'love'. You know like lust, infatuation, need, or security. Yes, I know breaking up hurts, and on so many levels which is why I specifically work with women who have been in toxic relationships or through a break up that they need help getting through. Some of us heal quicker than others, some of us move on to the next relationship to avoid dealing with it (Others just have super healthy boundaries and can easily and happily move on to someone new).
Anyway, back to my point about casting a spell in terms of manifesting your dream partner. Now, the only "spell" you will end up casting is on yourself. Don't panic - it's with love and really just a metaphor. What you will actually be doing is having an intensive look at your past in order to manifest your future.
By manifesting someone into your life you aren't casting a spell on him/her, you are getting clear on what you, in your heart of hearts really want in a partner. By being clear on this, you are in a better position to recognise when s/he shows up and whether they are worthy of your love.
Seriously, would you really want to spend your life with someone who realised they didn't have any feelings for you, but you found a way to 'make them love you'? Surely you would want to feel loved, and empowered by the fact that you truly know what you want from a partner and a relationship and knowing that, helped speed up them meeting you.